Fashion Friday

Fashion Friday, Aug. 30: “Basics” You Don’t Need – Blue Jeans

Yep. I said it. Blue jeans are NOT an essential piece of clothing to have in your regular wardrobe. By regular wardrobe, I mean day-to-day wear. I have blue jeans for doing outdoor work, camping, etc. However, I don’t wear blue jeans day to day.

I avoid blue jeans for a couple of reasons. If I wear a navy cardigan, blazer, top, etc, I often feel too much like a crayon unintentionally. In contrast, when I do a monochromatic grey look with grey jeans, it looks more deliberate. Overall, I find colored denim – even in neutral colors – looks more deliberate.

Second reason – double blue denim is a combo I rarely like to rock. I only feel confident in double denim when the colors or washes are significantly different. With my light denim jacket, I can easily pair it with colored denim and feel confident walking out the door.

As always, if you love blue jeans – rock them! If not, there are a plethora of colored denims out there! If jeans aren’t in your day-to-day wardrobe, chinos, slim cut cargos, or trousers are always sleek pant options.

Look out for a look book of colored denim when the weather cools down a little more!

❤ Zeebs

Selfie Sundays

Selfie Sunday, Aug. 25: Outfit Inspiration

Sorry for the lack of a post on Friday. I accidentally scheduled August 23’s post for this coming Friday. Oopsies! So, you’ll see it then, and stay on the lookout for another post! With that said, let’s get into it!

Today’s post is focused on outfit inspiration! At a dinner event thing-a-ma-jig, one of my lovely peers came with this amazing outfit!

When I saw her in this outfit I was OBSESSED and absolutely wanted to share it with you! I loved how she wore a patterned shirt with a textured black trouser. (Sadly, you can see the texture in this photo.) And also… THE SHOES. I love how shiny and bold they are. They add an element of cool, casual effortlessness to this look.

I don’t know if I would ever wear a button down shirt or those loafers, but she looks goooooooooood. How I would take this inspiration and apply it to my own wardrobe: shiny shoes (maybe ballet flats or heels), black trousers, and a patterned blouse. Any pattern would work, but I would probably go with a blue because I loved how the dark blue and black work together!

Thanks girlie for letting me take and post a picture!

❤ Zeebs

Selfie Sundays

Selfie Sunday, Aug. 18: Body Insecurity and Weight Gain, Meet Style.

Body insecurity is something, like many other people, I have struggled with in varying amounts over the course of my life. (Yep, we’re gettin’ real today, folks.) When I was in my senior year of high school, my body confidence was probably at its all time high (for that far in my life). My waist was small, my chest was filling out, and my body was toned from martial arts practice. I felt confident in pretty much anything I wore and was physically comfortable wearing.

Everything sort of filled out in college. My shoulders and hips and waist got wider, even under the usual walking to class and eating less in the warmer months of the year. (People often eat more in the winter, hence why I was “eating less” in the summer to early autumn.) It was discouraging when I would try on clothes that I loved and they no longer fit. There were days where all I could think about was my fear of continuously gaining weight. Spoiler alert: I didn’t continuously gain weight.

Weight gain in your late teens and early twenties has a lot more to do with less exercise or that high calorie dining hall food. Birth control, mental health struggles, eating too little (screwing up your metabolism), and genetics can all contribute to weight gain. Even then, a little weight gain doesn’t mean it’s bad. What’s far more important is having healthy habits.

But the weight gain does mean my body changed shape. And that can be a difficult adjustment in a world where the beauty industry doesn’t articulate that body shapes and sizes change have different highlights at every stage of life. Those highlights, regardless of trends or body messaging, will always be beautiful.

What I love about clothing, fashion, style, etc. is that we can use it to celebrate what we love about ourselves. Our clothes give us the power to highlight those legs you worked hard in the gym for or that butt that your mama gave you. Our clothes can help us feel sexy or powerful or ethereal. Personal style gives us the opportunity to celebrate in place of conforming.

Thank you so so much for stopping by and giving my blog a read! Leave a comment or send me a message. I would love to chat with you! 🙂

❤ Zeebs

Fashion Friday

Fashion Friday, Aug. 16: A “Basic” You Don’t Need – The Button Down Shirt

I don’t know who started the idea that a white button down shirt is a closet essential, but I’m here to tell you that under no circumstances is is necessary in a wardrobe.

When I started to get more into clothes, I watched “closet essential” videos on YouTube to learn what basic are important and must haves in a wardrobe, especially if you want to build your closet from the ground up. So many channels swore by the white button down as a key piece in any outfit aiming for a sense of professionalism or sophistication. And they aren’t wrong: a white button down can be used to add a flair of class.

That DOESN’T mean it’s necessary. In fact, for some people (like myself) its best to avoid them all together. I am a more busty and curvaceous person, which I have embraced. What I didn’t know a few years ago is that when you are curvier, some pieces of clothing in outlet stores will not be your friend. This includes the button front shirt. In a world when going up in size can be a source of shame or embarrassment (which is thankfully changing), button front shirts can be a menace. Unless cut to accommodate a bust, button front shirts will often pucker and distort around the center buttons instead of the fabric itself stretching. This means if you are bustier and a shirt fits you in the waist, it’s likely that the shirt will be stretching around the girls. To get a shirt to fit your chest, you may have to go up multiple sizes. If you struggle with body image, seeing those size numbers go up might be more demoralizing than that shirt is worth.

By no means am I saying if you are busty you can’t wear a button down shirt. You can! However, it is extremely important to remember that the number on the tag is arbitrary, and buying a larger size to accommodate your breasts and then going to a tailor to make the garment fit properly all around is probably your best bet.

Any white blouse can serve as a great alternative! My favorite white blouse is one that you saw in my most recent OOTD post. (Check it out!) Being sleeveless, blousy, and featuring a bow accent, I don’t have to worry about feeling restricted or looking unprofessional. The blousing (often not in a white button down) hides any excess tummy I might have that day or feel self-conscious about (We all have those days.). The v-neck helps to elongate the body with a sense of verticality, and the bow adds a classy, feminine detail! I feel oodles more confident in this top than I ever had in a button front shirt.

Thanks for swinging by and giving a read!

❤ Zeebs

Selfie Sundays

Selfie Sunday, Aug. 11: OOTD – Mixing Metallics

Hello hello! Today is another outfit of the day. The theme: don’t be afraid to mix metallics! Remember: all metallics are neutrals, so you can mix them however you want! I love pairing my gold clutch/wristlet with my bronze colored flats. I added a rose gold watch with a gold bangle, and metallic earrings to add more metallic fun! since I wanted to focus on the metallic mixing, I kept the top and skirt neutral. Though, if you take a close look, you’ll see the buttons on my skirt are also metallic! The white blouse has a bow which adds a little interest without trying to be the star of the show!

Thanks for stopping by! Feel free to leave a comment, like, or send me outfit inspiration!

❤ Zeebs

Fashion Friday

Fashion Friday, Aug. 9: Business Casual OOTD

Summer is hot, but business casual environments requires more coverage. A balanced summer business casual outfit requires some effort to not bake in the sun and not freeze in the office.

I am in love with these wide leg trousers! With a paperbag waist and light fabric, the pants flow without drowning my petite frame – and are trendy this year! Wide leg trousers are a great option in summer because they allow for more ventilation.

With a wider trouser, I always go with a more fitted top to keep a polished look. In this case, I went with classic shape top with ruffled sleeves and polka dots (a trend this summer) to add energy and lightness! The fabric is nice and breathable, and the sleeves don’t rebel when you add a cardigan to protect yourself against the overly powerful air conditioning.

I paired this outfit with my bright suede pumps to add a pop of color. The modern color in this more classic shape help the outfit to remain both fun and professional. I topped it off with a delicate necklace with various colored beads for more color with being more understated. The outfit overall is more fun than a white button down shirt and trousers, but still follows the norms of business casual.

The blouse and pant combo can carry into cooler weather with a cropped cardigan and an ankle bootie. I wore this blouse/pant combination to a town meeting with a neutral sweater and metallic ballet flat. I’ll for sure be still rocking these wide leg pants in the late autumn and winter with leggings underneath for additional warmth.

As always, leave a comment, a like, or shoot me a message with feedback! I also would welcome any outfit inspiration!

❤ Zeebs

Selfie Sundays

Selfie Sunday, Aug. 4: New Booties!

Say hello to the new booties in my closet! With a 2.5 inch block heel and made by Dr. Scholl’s, these booties are stylish and comfortable! I ordered mine in a size 7. I always size a half size down when ordering heels, as I like a slightly tighter fit. I’m sure it would have fit if I ordered a 7.5.

Screenshot from DSW. (Link at bottom of post.)

The color is only slightly darker in real life than on the website. The lighting in my photo made the shoes appear slightly darker on camera. I love that the front of this bootie is lower in the front than in the back. Being petite, one of the last things I want to do is cut off my ankle or shorten the appearance of my legs. These allow your ankles to be seen while still enjoying the look of a bootie! This stone color provides an interesting neutral to mix among fellow neutrals and fun colors. I went for the faux crocodile texture to add more interest, as is right on trend for this summer and fall. These shoes also come in a leopard print and in black if this color/texture isn’t quite your style!

I am soooooo looinkg forward to showing you how I style these in the future! Right now, it’s a little too hot to wear jeans or jackets, so I’ll be revealing some outfit inspiration when the weather cools down some!

❤ Zeebs

Link: https://www.dsw.com/en/us/product/dr.-scholls-all-my-life-bootie/468882?activeColor=021