Selfie Sundays

Selfie Sunday, Sept. 8 Part 2: Fit and Re-purposing

One of my “absolutes” in my style is that if it doesn’t fit, it either needs to go or has to change. Sometimes we love pieces and don’t want to get rid of them or we desperately want to try and make them fit. I understand – I’ve been guilty of that, myself. However, the more into style I get, the more I realize that clothes that don’t fit 1) often don’t make you feel confident and/or 2) they aren’t flattering. We all deserve clothes that flatter our bodies and make us feel confident. Nothing less.

There is a tool to save some of those items though, and that’s a tailor! Being petite, I face the “struggle” of finding many items of clothing that are too long to flatter my frame. Fortunately, I often shop at stores which have petite sizing. But, I am not afraid of a tailor! Clothes we buy in stores might NOT be made to fit your body right off the rack. (If they do, more power to you.) If the waist is too large or that leg too long, a tailor can easily hem and alter clothes to have them fit perfectly!

Of course, then we also have clothes that have outlived their use. We change shape and our lives take us on new paths. Our wardrobe should evolve with us. I firmly believe in reusing, re-purposing, etc. clothing items that no longer serve us well. You can drop them off at a thrift store or sell them on apps like Depop for a little extra cash.

Recently, one of my favorite statement necklaces of all time broke (R.I.P.). Whenever I wore it, I felt feminine and funky. (Notice those are two of my style adjectives?) Even though it no longer works, that doesn’t mean the life of the piece has to be over. I’ve taken the beads apart and am stoked to be refashioning them into a new piece of jewelry. I’ll definitely be showing it to you when my project is complete!

Thanks for swinging by and giving this post a read. I appreciate you so so much!!

❤ Zeebs

Selfie Sundays

Selfie Sunday, Jul 28: Clothes Reflect You

Clothes reflect who you are – for better or for worse. While some people think this is unfair (and sometimes it can be), it’s often proven to be true. Wearing a suit can give an air of professionalism, refinement, or even sloppy. It depends on how you wear it. A pink suit can say femininity and polished. A suit that is multiple sizes too big or small will give the impression that you don’t know your size and aren’t as put together as if the suit were the proper size and tailored. 

The beauty of clothes is that it provides an opportunity to express your personality to the world and invite them. People make judgments, which means your clothes can lead people to make positive judgments about you.  Don’t ignore aspects of your personality, as it can be reflected in how you wear clothes. If you are a tomboy, a ruffled floral dress may not be you. If you wear it and feel that it doesn’t represent you – it will show!

To me, it’s important that I express as many facets to my personality and my emotions as possible. An idea on achieving a wardrobe which portrays you is to make a list of adjectives to describe you. Then, go through your closet and match clothing and accessories to those adjectives. Your denim jacket can say casual if covered in patches or feminine and delicate if it features crochet or lace detailing. Your favorite leopard print pump can speak to an outgoing, bold, or aggressive aspect of your persona. Mixing pieces with different vibes that speak to you will create a dynamic and stylish outfit.

That’s my little PSA for the day! Thanks for swinging by!

❤ Zeebs

Fashion Friday

Fashion Friday, Jul 5: Using Color

Color. Pattern. Texture. Shine. If that happens to sound familiar, “What Not to Wear” from TLC used these four elements of an outfit. These four in different amounts can show personality and visual interest within an outfit. Today’s topic: color.

One of the great things about color is that it’s near limitless – even if you swear by the seasons and color wheels. If there’s a color you aren’t the most confident in or want to experiment with, use accessories! Yellow was a color that I didn’t feel the most confident in, and it’s sprung as quite a trendy color this year. I decided to jump in with a yellow necklace and hoop earrings (seen below)! The new use of bright color in jewelry expands my style comfort zone and draws attention to my face. (Which I like – and as a PSA – everyone should like their face!)

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Another option is to pick a pattered garment with a splash of a new color among neutrals or coordinating with other colors in your wardrobe. When you do this, be sure to love everything else about the piece and that its functional. If there’s something you don’t like about the piece, you’re significantly less likely to wear it. In addition, buy items that highlight areas you want highlighted. If you don’t want people looking at your ears (maybe you recently got a new piercing and it isn’t looking so hot right now) earrings might not be the way to go. If you’re self conscious about the areas that will be highlighted by the new item, you probably will avoid it. And we don’t want that!

It’s also wise to buy a less expensive piece when experimenting. “Less expensive” is, of course, a relative term. What may be expensive for one person might not be for another. With my wardrobe, I like to think of the cost of items in terms of price per wear. I use less expensive items when expanding my style comfort zone because if I end up wearing it very little, (not every experiment works out) I’ll have paid less in terms of price per wear. If it becomes a piece I wear often, I can upgrade later knowing the cost per wear will be worth it! The jewelry I mentioned (and in the picture) earlier I got from Kohl’s. The experiment of adding yellow into my wardrobe has worked, and I’ve bought other pieces. The cost per wear of the jewelry is down to dimes per wear, and I know I’ll keep wearing them for awhile!

Being my first post, (How exciting!) I should tell you that I plan on uploading twice a week: Fashion Fridays and Selfie Sundays. Fashion Fridays are, as the name suggests, fashion posts. Selfie Sundays will be more open. It could be inspiration I’ve seen from social media or other bloggers, an outfit of the day, or something about my own fashion journey! Ideally, I’ll post these the night before or morning of the day in question. I’ve also created an Instagram (@zeebstyle) where I can post, notify, and interact with you!

❤ Zeebs